Anonymous asked: is that ketchup/dark brows chick? wow she looks so pretty. and wow i never knew shes asian lol. i love asians.lol.

She is pretty! And if you’re weird, she’ll like you for sure. You can have all the Asians you want, there’s plenty of them around. Sorry, bad joke? 

Anonymous asked: Who is the most honest person you know? and trust?

I’ve answered this question before. It’s somewhere in my answered questions link if you’re interested in digging up the past. But if you’re not, then here you go: Younger Sister, Dark Brows Chic, and Ancient Friend. I can’t choose just one, apologies.

Anonymous asked: do you think your friends that you talk about so much here are going to be your friends forever?

I hope we’ll be friends forever, I mean, they are awesome possums. 

Do I think we’ll be friends forever? Yeah. I think so. Maybe not in the kind of way we were before but I’m sure we’ll all still keep in touch. 

You can count on me, like one, two, three, I’ll be there… 

Question of the day: What about to an ex-girlfriend that you’re trying to fix things with? So me and her can be good friends again.

I didn’t know who else to ask, most my friends do not even think it’s cool or normal that I still talk to her, yet alone friends with. So I ask you and you’re cool and seem to be pretty wise at this. I have no budget like seriously, but it has to be kinda special. I thought a friendship necklace but I don’t know.

Pretty cool and wise, you say? Thank you. With the help of my friend, Dr. Google, I am able to conquer the world.

I think what kind of gift you give your ex girlfriend depends on things like… did you break the relationship off or did she? Is she in a new relationship? How are you two with each other now? Are you planning to “win” her back at some point or is this really just genuine friendship going on between you two?

I’ll assume you mean it’s genuine friendship.

If it is, don’t think much about it. When you want to give an ex a gift then you have to remember that the gift must be for them and them only, expect nothing back. The friendship necklace is great but it feels as if by giving her that you expect her to be connected to you… if that makes sense.

Also, if you say it has to be special, then I’m guessing you still do have feelings for in which case, giving her a gift would be a bad idea.

The only time it’s right to give a gift to an ex is if you are over her, and the gift is a token of appreciation for past memories, not a tool to beget new ones.

Except I’m sure that’s not what you want to hear and will go ahead with the gift anyway so here are some ideas.

Give her a humorous shirt. For example, I have a friend named Meg and she likes the megusta face so I’d get her a shirt with that meme with words saying “MEG USTA”. It’s unromantic and friendly and also considered special because you did think of something smart. At the same time, when she receives it she will appreciate it and know this is a friendly gift.

You could give her a humorous card or a mug or gloves and a scarf that’s in her favourite colour or favourite pattern. If you know of something little she collects, you could get her one to add to her collection (eg. fridge magnets, little porcelain objects, journals/diaries, spoons).

You have to remember that it should be inexpensive, sent casually or friendly, and not be seen as if you are trying to get anything from her. 

Also please remember not to push the friendship if your ex-girlfriend doesn’t want to reconnect. She may need time or still have unresolved feelings about the relationship.

I hope this helped somehow. Please message me on what you decide, would love to hear about it. Good luck!

Question of the day: My girlfriend’s birthday is coming up. I’d like to ask for some ideas on what to get her.

I think a girl needs three things given to her by her boyfriend. 

1. A shirt of yours - so she can wear you at home. It doesn’t have to be something new, any shirt of yours will do. Even old ones that don’t fit you anymore.
2. A stuffed animal - so she can hug you. Probably the most cliched kind of gift but girls like cuddles now and then and having something to hug that reminds her of you is great. Also, having something to hug at night before she sleeps, that’s a from you, is great.
3. Piece of jewelry - so she can wear you when she goes out. It doesn’t matter what kind; necklace, ring, or bracelet. If you think it’s something she’d like or if it’s something you want to see her wearing then get her one. Price doesn’t matter too by the way, it’s the thought that counts.

So yeah, those are pretty much the things I think a girl should have from you. Hope it goes well and I hope this helped somehow.

whatsnottolove asked: jealous anons! youre not vain at all! RUDE. <3

Anonymous asked: VAIN.

Oh boohoo, I could just cry.

Anonymous asked: I would go on bended knee for you.

You really mean that?